Not a Day goes by without Visitors!

Instructed to drink a lot to stay hydrated in these last days and to make an effort to eat something, he has been awake between his naps and rests.  He is remarkably present, and he says he does not suffer pain.  His main frustration is the weakness that leaves him slack and in bed. 

He is gracious with visitors and truly happy to see friends and colleagues who cherish his kindness, his integrity,  and his tireless mentorship.  


Steve Gliessman and Robbe Jaffe came by on their way back to their ranch, Condor's Hope, in the Cuyama Valley, where they grow organic grapes and olives, putting to practice their agroforestry knowledge.  

We have been to the ranch to help in harvests and have enjoyed their dedication.  It was great that they could take time to stop in.




Claudia Knudson was walking her dog and brought us some of her homemade rompope -- eggnog!  This is a tradition.  

She took the time whilst here to visit Mike.  And as for all visitors, the book on Santa Barbara's Ancient Past takes front and center! 


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  1. Cecilia FordDecember 16, 2025 at 8:05 AM

    I am trying to post a link to a shadow puppet piece I did that is related to this journey we all are on. So far it hasn't worked....but.....

    https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/fm53mbf7ceudl0eazb5pb/x-el-viaje-full-credits.mp4?rlkey=lc95nkn854dhtsihpg6kz2aik&dl=0

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    1. Cecilia FordDecember 16, 2025 at 8:09 AM

      The link is not clickable but you can cut and paste it into a browser--- maybe it will work.

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    2. Donna DDecember 16, 2025 at 3:31 PM

      So much love coming Mike’s way from wonderful friends and family!

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  2. Cecilia FordDecember 16, 2025 at 4:34 PM

    Love coming from Donna and me...

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