Despedida for Ceci and Donna

 



Ceci and Donna were on a California trip for several weeks, starting in LA, visiting us at the cabin in Wrightwood, and finishing their stay in Santa Barbara.  The despedida dinner at our home included Sandy and Mac as well as Maria, who is our stalwart support for Mike.


Maria and Sandy

We have our communal time of boquitas and wine.  Mike had the non alcohol beer introduced to him by Mac! In fact, this has been a great addition for Mike's dinner, and he has enjoyed them and they  are available at Trader Joe's!  


This is the brand!











Ceci had asked Mike what he would like for dinner and he selected Pizza.  Sandy and Mac brought the pizza from Olio Pzzaria, it was very good!  Sandy also brought salad and we had apple pie and ice cream for dessert.  Mike prefers only ice cream.


It was a very lovely evening.



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  1. Donna DDecember 10, 2025 at 3:57 PM

    I was so happy to spend Thanksgiving with you and Mike in Wrightwood for the very first time! It will always be a very memorable occasion for all of us.
    We love you both and are always here for you.😘❤️



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    1. Cecilia FordJanuary 16, 2026 at 1:02 PM

      Both of us had a wonderful & memorable time with you and mike in WW and in SB❤️

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