A Day of Rest



This morning, Mike wanted to rest.  We did not have many plans for visits, and that was good.

I have a yearly celebration of December birthdays with Barbara Harthorn; we used to include Francesca Bray until she moved to Edinburgh.  Last year, we all met in NYC for a short week to remember such events.  This morning, Barbara and I had breakfast at El Encanto.  We have not spent much time together due to our mutual home obligations, and so it was our chance to catch up. It was a touching and peaceful time.

Back home, Mike had his small breakfast, and I told him of my visit with Barbara. She and Roy would come to visit later -- and they did!


Everyone who visits is excited about Mike's book draft, and we all know it will be published next year. 


I went to Condor's Hope reception to fetch my box of their wonderful wines with Roozbeh, Sara, and their daughter Roshan.  It was great to see Steve and Robbie. Roozbeh and Sara are visiting scholars and are working with me on the El Pilar data.






It was a quiet evening, and I partook of dinner with Mike.




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  1. EllieDecember 15, 2025 at 1:28 PM

    Food looks good!! Thinking of you guys!!

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  2. Cecilia FordDecember 15, 2025 at 6:50 PM

    Amazing journey.

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  3. Cecilia FordDecember 16, 2025 at 7:59 AM

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  4. Cecilia FordDecember 16, 2025 at 4:33 PM

    You are looking beautiful, Anabel.

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  5. Larry SpanneDecember 22, 2025 at 11:13 AM

    We will miss you Mike. You’ve lived a good and productive life with a loving and supportive Annabel by your side. Soar with the Eagles.

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