At the Journeys End

Mike has been calm and valiant over the past year and a half. He has followed the protocols, yet his cancer escaped its bounds. As we transitioned to Hospice, he was able to appreciate each day. He read the morning comics, took walks, collected the mail, read the Irish Times, and responded to email. He was also working on profiles for El Pilar, a great help.


Mike and Anabel are Checking out Details


This past week, he found it very difficult to get up; he was weak, his walking was unsteady, and his ability on the computer faltered. He could not walk down our long driveway to get the mail, and he found he could not work on my profiles.  

I had imagined that we would go on in a simple mode, and his health would slowly change.  This past week showed that it was not in the cards. Even so, he was involved in the lovely dinner, wishing Ceci and Donna a fine return. Jonathan, his brother and Cathy his wife and son JD came up for the Saturday lunch, and he was outside on the patio for that. Luck Cathy left some wonderful foods that he has enjoyed since their visit. Sunday, he could not get out of bed.

And his and now his days are numbered, and he wishes to hasten his end.  We are working on that, while in the meantime, we are getting hospice visits every day, a special bed that will make moving easier, and more support in the morning in the evening.  We are fortunate to have a good system.  

Mike finished a book manuscript over a year ago.  It went through reviews and was turned over to a layout publisher in March.  It was not until well into September that I was getting worried.  Mike, still able to work, had not seen any progress. I got on the case, and we have seen updates, but it has been slow, and there have been so many formatting issues.  We now have a basic draft that we can read for details, and I can now send it for the indexing.  The index may take a month!  

My hope was that Mike would have the complete book in his hands, and as he ended his journey on this earth, he would see his opus that represents his reflection on his research on the Chumash.  Santa Barbara's Ancient Past is a public-facing work that gives the interested amateur as well as scholar a general look at the complex story of the area and will be published by the Santa Barbara Museum of Natural History. The last book treating this subject was published in 1929!  Every century, they need an update!  

Well, the idea of Mike holding it in his hand had to be done differently.  This involved taking the PDF to be printed in color and trimmed to size... and now he has it in his hand!

Mike with his book in his hands!

 


Comments

  1. Please give Mike all my love. We are in Hawaii but return soon and hope we still have a chance to see Mike again. My heart goes out to you, Anabel. Mike has had such a major and positive impact on California archaeology. His legacy will continue.

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  2. Anabel, thanks for letting us know about the transitional moment you are experiencing.
    I remember the first time Mike received me in his office. I could barely speak English. He was very patient and invited me to visit the lab and help Elizabeth Sutton and Dustin Mackensie with shell sorting from SCRI sites :) This was in 2004, twenty one years ago.
    Please Anabel, tell him that I remember and thanks for all the adventures in SCRI. For his constant help and support.
    A big and warm hug from the Pacific coast of South America.

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  3. Hi Anabel -

    Thank you for providing Mike’s friends, supporters, and colleagues with a thoughtful and informative update on Mikes condition. It was good to see the manuscript of Mike’s book in his hands. I showed Mike my vintage copy of David Banks Rogers 1929 book on the Chumash of the Santa Barbara coast. I’m looking forward to reading Mike’s update. I hope you’re sharing those tasty pomegranates with Mike. And hope to see you both soon.

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  4. Thank you, Mike for all you taught me about archaeology and for sparking my interest in it.

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  5. We had a good visit and lunch Saturday . We always enjoy visits and having good food together. Thank you Anabel for all your updates. Good to see Mike with his book! Caleb comes back Tuesday, so I can check if another weekend would be ok to come SB. —Jonathan

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  6. Dear Anabel, thank you for sharing Mike’s status during this phase of his life. It’s great that he got the book into his hands. I will always remember the pace he kept hiking from site to site on Santa Cruz island, and the classes I took as a beginning graduate student from him. What a sincere and supportive professor! I wish you and him continued peace and calm. Sincerely, Hector

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  7. The end of life as we know it is hard for us to accept, because we are very attached to those we love. It helps me to remember all the times shared with gratitude. How wonderful, Anabel, that you could get Mike’s book into print for him to hold! He is visibly moved by your kindness. I anm moved by your loving kindness to each other over the years. Our loved ones don’t want us to suffer when they leave us. I’m deeply grateful for the 55 years I lived in love with Ron; how can I complain? Death is part of life, it just doesn’t look as beautiful.

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  8. Anabel - thank you for sharing this story of Mike's transition from a life that was so well lived and so generous in spirit. When I first got to UCSB and was exposed to the concerns about native American archaeology and restoration work I reached out to Mike and he was so thoughtful in his comments, willing to give advice and share information that helped me plan realistically and effectively. He has such a depth of knowledge and it is so impressive that he was able to pull together a book in these last few years. I look forward to reading it. I am sure you are going through your own transition in addressing this huge change in your life as well and loss of a life partner. May peace come to you both as time passes. - Lisa

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  9. PATH he has shown many
    Studious one we follow
    Dust well deserved

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  10. We love you Mike! Enjoyed our hikes and visits at your cabin.

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  11. Thinking of you, Mike and Anabel. It’s not often when can say they’ve contributed to the collective history of an almost forgotten peoples. Thank you both for your work in this area. I admired for your expertise and willingness to go the long run. Mike, I admire your courage as you face that great unknown. You are doing it with grace in dignity. Anabel, You are an exceedingly supportive and loving partner, and anyone would be so lucky to have someone like you by their side during this difficult time. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

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